It may seem to the reader that I’m being verbose in some of these items, that I’m qualifying them with things like, “……..and her enjoying it.”. I do that for this reason; True Love is between two people. It is not one-way. So I show my love for her by surprising her at her office with flowers or I do other things to show her that I can never get enough of her. That’s one-way. The True Love that I so long for is two -way. It not only involves my partner feeling the same way about me, but it ALSO involves her reveling in the knowledge that I DO feel that way and those things for her. It’s not asking for a “thank you” or recognition from her. It’s the desire for her to KNOW and REVEL in the fact that you adore her and can’t live without her. So, it is a matter of BOTH partners enjoying and seeing the “specialness” in each item.
Ø TUL is never keep a secret from your partner………………….and never doing anything that you have to keep from your partner.
Ø TUL is wanting to send loving emails and texts to each other during the day…………..each partner being touched by receiving them.
Ø TUL is never being embarrassed to give or receive PDA (within reason) to/from your partner…………………………and knowing she feels exactly the same way.
Ø TUL is when friends can tell that you are totally into each other………………especially after you’ve been together for years.
Ø TUL is grabbing three quarters from the ground at the Starbuck’s drive thru and your first act is to text her to say, “Three quarters at Starbucks drive thru. I’m rich!!!!!!!!”. And she thinks you are “too darn cute” for doing so.
Ø TUL is walking around the streets of a far off big city on vacation, where neither of you know anyone, and you are so happy and content to be there alone with her as a couple.
Ø TUL is sitting close to her and spending time just staring at her, mesmerized and slowly gazing at every square inch of her face and neck, unable to look away, because you are looking at the most beautiful creature in the world.
Ø TUL is believing she is the prettiest girl ever on the face of the earth……………and telling her that every day…………..and her feeling a tingle inside every time you tell her.
Ø TUL is her knowing she never needs to wear make-up for you.
Ø TUL is any girl that looks at you saying, “Whoa! Hands off him!”, not because they see a jealous, rabid partner on your arm, but because your vibes and actions “tell” them that you are totally in love and couldn’t care less about any other woman.
Ø TUL is totally digging her in a T-shirt, beat up jeans and flip flops or sneakers.
Ø TUL is totally enjoying going grocery shopping together.
Ø TUL is enjoying shoveling the snow out of the driveway, brushing the snow off her car and warming her car up for her.
Ø TUL is each of you enjoying her modeling for you when she buys new clothes, even if it’s only a T-shirt.
Ø TUL is getting a charge out of buying her a unique gift for no special occasion and seeing the smile on her face, and knowing she appreciates it because you did it out of love for her.
Ø TUL is her saying to you on a dark, rainy, summer night, “Let’s get naked and go run around the back yard in the rain.”.
Ø TUL is being at the lake on a sunny afternoon and her saying, “I know it’s the middle of the afternoon and boats may come by, but let’s jump in and go skinny dipping!”.
Ø TUL is her realizing and reveling in how your music affects you, and listening to your deepest songs and going, “Wow!”.
Ø TUL is stopping by her office during the day to surprise her with flowers, or nothing at all, and a five minute kiss behind her closed door…………….and her really digging it.
Ø TUL is having a blast playing basketball together in your driveway.
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